Please Read Before Submitting
This form must be completed in full before your first session can be scheduled. Once your responses are reviewed, our team will contact you to set up an initial appointment with the pastor. At that time, we will prayerfully determine whether to begin the full premarital counseling process.

Important:

Both partners must complete it separately.
Both individuals must be present for all premarital counseling sessions.
Valley Crossroads Church reserves the right to pause or discontinue the counseling and planning process at any time.

By submitting this form, you confirm your understanding and agreement.

SECTION 1: FOUNDATIONAL COMMITMENTS

Your Full Name

Your Fiance's Full Name *

Phone *

Email *

Are you a member of Valley Crossroads? *

Yes

Briefly describe your relationship with Jesus Christ. *

What is your understanding of God's purpose for marriage? *

What does it mean to be equally yoked in faith? *

How do you include prayer and Scripture in your daily life? *

Have you prayed together about this relationship and future marriage? *

Yes

Have you set a wedding date yet? If so, enter the date here. If not, leave this answer blank and skip to the next section.

SECTION 2: MARRIAGE READINESS AND INTENTIONS

Why do you believe God is leading you to marry this person at this time? *

What spiritual fruit do you see in your fiancé’s life? *

What are your expectations for spiritual leadership in your home? *

How do you define love according to 1 Corinthians 13? *

What does it mean to make a covenant before God in marriage? *

What is your understanding of a husband's role? *

What is your understanding of a wife's role? *

SECTION 3: RELATIONAL HEALTH AND COMMUNICATION

How do you typically handle conflict? Give an example. *

How do you resolve disagreements biblically? *

What physical boundaries have you set in your relationship? Why? *

Have either of you been through counseling? If yes, explain briefly. *

SECTION 4: LIFE PLANNING AND STEWARDSHIP

What are your views on finances and stewardship? *

Who will handle the budget and bills? *

How will you handle disagreements about money? *

Do you plan to have children? If yes, how many? *

What is your parenting philosophy? *

How will you prioritize your marriage after children? *

How do you plan to keep the romance alive long-term? *

SECTION 5: FAMILY, CHURCH, AND ACCOUNTABILITY

What is your relationship like with your parents and in-laws? *

How will you establish boundaries with extended family? *

Are you both committed to active church involvement? *

Yes

How do you plan to serve together in your local church? *

Do you have a married couple or spiritual mentor to help support you? *

Yes

Are there any unresolved family or personal issues that may affect your marriage? *

SECTION 6: FINAL REFLECTION

What do you believe will hold your marriage together during difficult times? *

Are there any fears or concerns you want to discuss before proceeding? *

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